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Soulslike games for beginners: where to start without rage

Do not start on the hardest one. The order, assist settings, and how not to hate the genre.

11 min read · Updated Sep 5, 2026, 2:00 PM

The classic mistake is gifting yourself Elden Ring or Sekiro first because “that is the good one”. You can. You can also quit in two hours and decide the genre is not for you, when you actually skipped the tutorial called patience.

Start with the one that teaches

Lies of P, some Team Ninja titles, and the more guided FromSoft games (or Remnant if you want guns) teach tells without a map crushing you. Elden Ring is only “easy” because you can leave; the combat is not simpler. Sekiro is the parry exam. Dark Souls 1 is design history with an old camera.

Settings that are not cheating

If there is an easy mode, using it does not revoke your club card. A stable 60 FPS helps more than any build. What you cannot do is parry at 28 FPS.

How you actually learn

A death is information: where the hit came from, how much stamina the roll ate, whether you went greedy. Do not level faith ten times because a wiki said so if you do not understand the move. Wikis are for a 40-attempt boss, not for skipping the game.

Co-op and summons

Summoning is not a sin. It is another way to play. The genre ends when you stop reading patterns and only call a tank. Try twice solo; the third time, get help if you want to stay emotionally alive.

When a big soulslike lands, FlexChar files the news. This page is the “where do I start” anchor. Then: FPS, low-end PCs, and co-op if you want a dungeon together.

Frequently asked questions

Is Elden Ring a good first soulslike?

It can be if you accept getting lost and not min-maxing in two hours. If open maps frustrate you, start linear.

Pad or keyboard?

Pad wins for most people. Keyboard is fine if you already aim that way in shooters. Do not switch mid-boss.

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